Passed away on September 23, 2020 at the age of 101. Predeceased by her Parents, William and Ruth Stillman; husband, Robert DeMay. She is survived by her daughter, Roberta Christensen; loving grandchildren, Ronald (Kate) and Michael Coyle; great-grandchildren, Matthew, Jason, , Kendall, Bailey and Ronald Coyle. Family will receive friends on Thursday October 1st, 2020 from 4PM - 7PM followed by a service at 7PM at New Comer Cremations & Funerals, 2636 Ridgeway Avenue. Contributions may be made in Ruth's name to Hildebrandt Hospice Center, 2652 Ridgeway Ave Rochester, NY 14626.