Barbara M. Infantino

Barbara M. Infantino, a cherished matriarch and beloved friend, passed away on March 5, 2026, at the Hildebrandt Hospice Center. She was born on July 25, 1943, in Plattsburg, New York, and lived a life defined by simplicity, warmth, and an unwavering love for her family.

Barbara devoted her career to the children of Rochester City Schools as a food service worker, where she not only nourished their bodies but also shared her great love of children, leaving a lasting impression on many young lives. Known for her sweet treats, she delighted in creating memorable culinary experiences, often recalling fond memories of cooking for her family. She took immense pride in nurturing not just her loved ones' bodies, but their spirits as well.

Family was the heart of Barbara’s existence. She is survived by her devoted sons, Brian Infantino and Michael Infantino, and her beloved daughter, Lisa Tirabassi. Her legacy lives on through her grandchildren: Alyssa Kuscuik, Aliya Infantino, Alanna Infantino (Dawson Marshall ) Owen Infantino, Gabriella Infantino, Nicholas (Amanda), Matthew, Grace, Samantha, and her great-grandchildren: Marina Kuscsik, Giovanni Infantino, Giuliana Infantino-Marshall, and Gianluca Infantino-Marshall.

In addition to her family, Barbara's life reflected a joyful spirit and enthusiasm for the simple things. She loved listening to country music and enjoyed bowling with her late husband, Dennis, and their friends—a testament to her vibrant personality and love for connection.

Barbara dedicated herself to her community, proudly volunteering at Holy Apostles, showing a dedication to giving back that will not be forgotten.

Barbara is reunited with her loving husband, Dennis, who passed away in 2020, and her dear son-in-law, Donald Tirabassi. She also now shines among her cherished parents, Clifford and Mary Trombley, who laid the foundation of love that Barbara carried throughout her life.

As we remember Barbara, we celebrate her remarkable spirit, her selfless love, and the cherished moments she provided to all who were fortunate enough to know her. Her simple yet profound life touched many, leaving an indelible mark that will resonate through generations. Barbara M. Infantino will be deeply missed and lovingly remembered by all whose lives she graced.