Brendan D. Warner

Brendan Warner, 33 of Irondequoit NY passed away November 9th 2026. He had been a resident of Irondequoit his entire life. Brendan graduated from Irondequoit High School and briefly attended MCC.

Brendan was diagnosed with Aspergers Syndrome when he was very young. Despite the challenges and obstacles, Brendan lived a remarkably independent and capable life. He worked as a cashier at Wegman’s for over 12 years, saved his money and earned numerous awards for his kindness and helpfulness to customers.

Brendan didn’t let Aspergers define him…or defeat him.

Brendan was a quiet man in his personal life who spoke to the world through his music. He was a gifted guitarist and music producer. For many years he played in the Northridge Church praise band and also played on many recordings that can still be heard on local and regional radio.

Brendan loved to make people laugh and would often light up the room with recitations and comedic routines that he had memorized. His moonwalking skills were legendary and something to be envied. He was always the last to leave the dance floor at any party or wedding.

Brendan was the go-to guy in the house for all IT questions, and he was a whiz at figuring out tricky assembly instructions. He was notorious for his dramatic and detailed reading of the rules of every board game. His mind just worked in incredible ways. He was always kind, helpful and loving to the family. No matter what.

Brendan was a special man in so many ways.

He was and will always be fiercely loved by his family and friends.

No one will ever take his place in our hearts. He will be loved forever.

He is survived by his father, Douglas Warner and Step-Mother Kathleen Warner. He was preceded in death by his mother, Lori Warner.

Brendan is further survived by his siblings: Leah and spouse Jacob Choate of North Tonawanda and their children Elias, Ada Jane, Bridget and Melanie, Evan Warner and spouse Lauren of Palmyra and their children Nora and Dean,Brett Warner of Irondequoit and his step-sister JoAnna Sero and spouse Joel of Webster and their children Jonah and Gabriella Sero.